"There are many excellent reasons why people in general and Christians in particular should not want to give the state the power to recognize and regulate marriage. When we give the state the right to legitimize one kind of sexual relationship or social formation, we automatically give it the right to render all other relaiotns illegitimate. Surely, the church should never cede its own perogatives to the state--especialy a state as bloodstained and beholden to the interests of the powerful as ours is. But all people should realize this: when you marry, you give power the state over your sexual relations, your person, the most intimate details of your life and body. To agree to marriage is to agree that the modern, violent, bureaucratic state has the right to control your life in its most intimate realms, public and private, personal and sexual, individual and collective. Not to put too fine a point on it, marriage cedes your genitals to the government....
...But I believe the church should also get out of the marriage business. Marriage is an exclusive and exclusionary technology for control. Modern churches legitimate one kind of social and intimate bonding and therefore declare illegitimate all others. This relationship is good--in fact, "divine." All others are bad or at best inferior."
-Dale Martin, Sex and the Single Savior, 122-3
"Bastard children are not created by the absence of marriage, but by marriage itself. Marriage makes bastards by making the category possible."
-Dale Martin, Sex and the Single Savior, 123
-Dale Martin, Sex and the Single Savior, 158
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